Day 61 of 84 – Making a Day Count

We sleep walk through too many days. I am convinced that the reason we are not as successful at achieving what is most important to us is because we are sleep walking. Everyday is not the same, yet they begin to feel the same when you are sleep walking. You go through each day, repeating similar patterns, following all ready trod paths and you start to go comatose. You go through each day almost the same way you did it before. Things start to feel eerily scripted. This may feel good for a person in a fixed mindset, but I hate to say, whereas that mindset has its advantages – it also a non-growth mindset. A non-changing mindset. Yet another boring and dull sunset in a pale gray sky. If you want to see vibrant sunsets, full of color and wonder you have to change your scenery, change your days, do something different.

As the sun begins to set on my vacation this week, I am reminded of how many different days were strung together full of new activity and new discovery. How much time I spent with what was the most important to me. I realize as I face the dawn of tomorrow, and the string of tomorrows that will follow it, how much I really need to cherish each and everyday and make sure I spent the time I can focused on what is really important. Everyday should be notable for one reason or another. Should you not know each day intimately? Should not each day be counted and noted as a successful attempt at achieving what life is all about. Why not aspire each day to greatness? At least give it a shot!? So you will fail, over and over again, but why not stretch to succeed and putting the most important priorities first?

Today I built a rock sculpture with one daughter, and sat and pondered nesting sea turtles with another. I say a beautiful sunset. I consider today a pretty good attempt at getting it right. Day 580 – the day I saw a sunset with my family.

Guy Reams (580)

Subscribe
Notify of
guest
0 Comments
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Share the Post:

Recent Blogs

Day 300 – Why the King is the Last to Know

This article explores the phenomenon of leaders being the last to know about problems or impending failures within their organizations. It highlights how subordinates often filter information due to fear, leading to a distorted reality for those in charge. The author uses historical examples and personal anecdotes to illustrate this point.

Read More

Day 299 – Using a Carrot or a Stick

This article explores the effectiveness of traditional motivational methods like the “carrot and stick” approach and argues for a more nuanced strategy. It emphasizes understanding individual motivations, setting clear goals, fostering autonomy, and leading by example to genuinely inspire harder work.

Read More

Day 298 – My First Zep Song

The author recounts their first encounter with Led Zeppelin, a pivotal moment in high school when a friend handed them a cassette tape. Despite initial confusion about the band’s albums, the song “D’yer Mak’er” from *Houses of the Holy* captivated them, marking their entry into the world of rock and roll.

Read More

Day 297 – Finding Solace

The author discusses experiencing cyclical periods of melancholy, which he distinguishes from depression, viewing them as transitional phases. He shares insights from a prison psychiatrist who emphasized managing reactions to these mood changes rather than viewing them as inherently problematic. The author’s strategy involves recognizing these feelings without judgment, continuing commitments despite them, and refraining from making major decisions during these low periods, which has led to shorter and less intense cycles over time.

Read More
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x