My whole life I had the goal to succeed at something. I figured out after a half a century that my goal should have been to fail. If you set your sight on failure, you push yourself to the point that is beyond your reach, you stretch yourself. Growth occurs with failure. The funny thing about failure is that on your way to your epic fail, you succeed at the things you never thought you could accomplish. Guy

Chosen Humility
This article explores the difference between humility forced by suffering and chosen humility. Drawing parallels to the American Civil War, the author argues that while forced humility can teach valuable lessons, choosing humility before adversity strikes is a rarer and more profound strength.


