Many people have the false impression that relationships are discovered. An eventful circumstance that collides two soulmates together and voila instant great relationship. You here symptoms of this thinking all the time. I was so lucky to find you. I wish I could meet someone like that. You two have something really special, not everyone is lucky to find that. People who says these things have bought into the absolute myth that relationship are discovered.
They are not discovered, they are earned. A great relationship is earned over a long period of time. When you see two people in a great relationship that are “great” for each other, it is because they have earned it, not because they have discovered it.