Day 154 – Our greatest weakness

“We are at our weakest when we think only of ourselves.” – Peter Flannery

This concept is at the heart of the 365 commitment. I dare say that the ultimate ambition of a 365 follower is to prepare oneself to be truly able and willing to serve others. Each and every morning we rise and after thinking about what is important to ourselves we think – how might I serve another person?

What could I add to my list today that could add benefit to a family member, friend, or colleague? Can I look beyond my own misery, my own internal struggles and seek to aid another?

If you are stuck in the doldrums of self loathing, fear, regret, and excuse making then perhaps you should consider focusing on helping a fellow human rather then being so focused on you. Amazing how this little bit of medicine has the ability to change your view of the situation, open your mind to reality and provide you with strength to overcome life’s greatest obstacles.

What is the perfect day? It is it a day when you check off all the things that are important to only you – or is it a day when you reach beyond yourself and lift another. I cannot think of a major world religion that does not have this concept embedded in the foundation of doctrine. I know in the Christian philosophy it is known as the golden rule.

Maybe the purpose of our lives is actually very simple. It is to learn to serve another at the sacrifice of yourself. “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” This eternal concept is unavoidable I feel. Atheist, Agnostic, or Apostolic you are faced with the reality that the most happy people, the most successful people, the most rewarded people, the most remembered people are the ones that give themselves up for the cause of serving others.

Having said that, I think I will spend the rest of my Saturday relaxing! Ah the weakness and frailty of being human.

Guy Reams (154)
365 Member

 

Subscribe
Notify of
guest
0 Comments
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Share the Post:

Recent Blogs

Day 3,207 – Anxiety under Uncertainty

This piece explores the anxiety that arises from uncertainty, explaining how the brain interprets unpredictability as danger and generates negative scenarios. It emphasizes that thinking harder doesn’t always lead to certainty, but often to more anxiety. The key takeaway is to recognize that a thought about a possible future isn’t evidence it will happen, and it’s okay to let things be uncertain.

Read More

Day 3,206 – Achievement and Contribution

The author shares two daily questions that help focus on achievement and contribution, leading to a sense of purpose and well-being. This approach, combining personal progress with helping others, serves as an anti-anxiety recipe and a path to living well.

Read More

Day 3,205 – Motivation is a Fair Weather Friend

This article emphasizes the importance of building systems that can withstand failure without collapsing entirely. It argues that continuous improvement, rather than striving for a perfect system or constant reinvention, is the key to progress. The author suggests that viewing failures as information for refinement, rather than reasons to give up, fosters an environment where habits can thrive.

Read More

Day 3,204 – Deliberate Reflection Improves Performance

Deliberate reflection is a foundational method for self-improvement, often overlooked despite its proven effectiveness. By reviewing experiences and understanding what went well or wrong, individuals can achieve greater progress than by simply accumulating experience. This practice is crucial for learning from mistakes and making necessary adjustments to achieve goals.

Read More
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x