Day 300 – Goals Should be Unobtainable

At this point in the year, something familiar begins to happen. After months of pursuing another 365 commitment, I find myself staring at the same quiet conclusion I have reached for the past four years. Somehow, against all odds, I have done it again. I set out to achieve something impossible, and in one form or another, I actually did.

This should feel like a triumph. In some ways, it is. But it also feels like a subtle warning. If I reached the impossible already, perhaps it was never truly beyond reach. Perhaps my target, as bold as it seemed at the start, was still too low.

Every year, I structure my commitment the same way. I choose something that demands daily effort, and I tie that discipline to a result that I consider far out of my current capabilities. I do not make light of this contract. I take it seriously. I offer consistency, sacrifice, and focus, and in return, I ask for transformation.

And every year, that transformation happens. Not exactly as I imagined it. Rarely in the form I expected. But I look back, and I cannot deny the change. The impossible thing I longed for, in one way or another, has taken root and become reality.

Which brings me to a difficult realization. I have not been aiming high enough.

Over time, I have learned a few things about goals. These lessons were not handed to me. They were earned through repetition, through failure, and through quiet reflection when the dust of accomplishment began to settle.

First, you must set the unreachable.

A goal that is within reach cannot change you. It may sharpen your skills or add another line to your résumé, but it will not make you different. Real growth only begins when you step toward something you do not yet believe you can do. The 365 commitment works because it demands the impossible. That stretch—that absurd distance—is what gives it power.

Second, you must commit every day.

The magic is not in the inspiration, and it certainly is not in the outcome. It is in the decision to show up again, regardless of yesterday’s results or tomorrow’s hopes. A 365 commitment becomes a forge. It takes ordinary actions and refines them through consistency until they become extraordinary.

Third, you must let goals fail upward.

I now believe that the best goals are the ones that are never fully reached. They are meant to expose your limits, not satisfy your ambition. When you miss the mark, you are not lost. You are simply ready to aim higher. If you arrive too soon, then you did not set your sights far enough.

Fourth, you must make the goal inspiring, not practical.

This is perhaps the most difficult lesson. You must choose a goal that stirs something deep within you, something that feels dangerous to say out loud. It should not fit neatly into your calendar or your current life plan. If it does, it will never carry you through the inevitable resistance. A truly meaningful goal must feel unreasonable and yet somehow necessary.

It is not a coincidence that the world’s most powerful belief systems have always promised something beyond this life. The most compelling religions do not offer certainty or comfort. They offer transformation, eternity, and salvation—realities that remain forever just beyond our reach. That is what stirs the human spirit. Not a reward, but a pursuit that changes who we are along the way.

And so here I am again. I set out to do something I could not do. I kept my end of the bargain. And as strange as it is to say, I received what I asked for. Now I face the same decision I face every year at this time.

Do I set another goal? Do I dare raise the bar again?

Yes, I do. Because the point is not to reach the goal. The point is to become the kind of person who keeps reaching.

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